by Karen Dover
It is often remarked that both the human male and the human female speak two different languages, the words that human females share with the human male are not interpreted in the same way that a human female sharing with another human female would be. For those who have ever read the book “men are mars, women are from venus” you will understand perhaps more clearly. The author showing how male behavior and female behavior is interpreted and misinterpreted. This is deliberate by the old earth, to keep the male and the female separate is the key for the devil. Any division at all works for the lower dimensional energies, where we BELIEVE or ASSUME that we are rejected or apart from those whom we love and share our human life experience we sow the seeds that grow as hurt. We then view our life experience through the lens of this hurt.
Between males and females on this planet the main emotional weapon is anger. Anger is used as a weapon in relationships the world over, it is used at all levels and in all relationships. Never is it so more apparent than between parents, many marriages take a turn into the emotion road of anger when children are born. The female taught that she is solely responsible for the health and well being of her offspring often shuts out the male without a thought. The human male is taught by the old earth that his role is to provide for his family, the emphasis is always on the physical and rarely on the emotion. Empathy for others for example is taught to children by the MALE not the female. Whilst the female may carry the child within her body the child is the product of BOTH parents, it is illusion to assume that a male is any further emotionally apart from his children just because he does not carry said children within his body.
Society places a huge emphasis on the mother of the children and fathers are left out the picture, until of course days like today, there is no co-incidence that “fathers day” happens to land on the summer solstice. The wound that is the division between the human male and the human female is opening at this time in order to heal. A woman may look to her father and celebrate the connection that she has with her father but does she celebrate the same connection with her husband? The label may be different but both are male. The emotion that is placed upon the father by the female will be transferred to her husband. The human female replicating the emotion with her choice of husband. Therefore if there was a division between the female and her father there will be the same emotional division between the husband and the female. This also happens between males and their mothers, with males often marrying females and experiencing the same emotional division.
Both males and females are taught to reference love in different ways. Both end up using this reference point as a weapon. This is what is being illuminated at this time in order to be released and to heal. LOVE JUST IS, we have been taught as a race to mix up LOVE with sex and to once more divide them. Females are taught that the human male can separate sex from love and so springs up a generation who use sex as more of a weapon than the previous generation. Slowly society has taught this distortion to the females as well and many females are finding out that it is not possible just as it is not possible to divide sex and love for the male. The bonding physically of two human beings is sharing of frequency on ALL levels of the human life experience. It is the frequency clutter (all interaction at a sexual level leaves a frequency residue that remains within the energy signature of both parties) that is pushing the division further between the human male and the human female. Studies have shown that the more sexual partners that both males and females have the more detached from emotional bonding they become, in short they begin to shut down and they begin to divide within themselves even further.
This drives the anger that was created between the original male and female on this planet. The division that took place between Adam and Eve in the garden of eden has been supported fully since the moment it took place by the lower dimensional energies. The devil will come in and play and plant the seeds where there is any unresolved anger between the male and the female. This begins to grow and divides and separates.
As we stand on the cusp of a new way of living and being we are asked to understand that life through the lens of anger and the assumption and the defense that springs up around this is not TRUTH. Those who read this blog will have read me talk about my own previous marriage which is now shown to me in a different light. The anger that existed between us was born out of a deep pain and at this time I am shown clearly my own anger. Is it any co-incidence that after losing my dear mother I then sought to run and to use the anger that exploded within me as a weapon? My anger was in relation to the death of my mother, I had already lost my father and that anger sat within me. I go back to my statement about how the woman views her father in relation to the husband that she chooses. My father was absent from my life, my anger that he was absent fueled and distorted the man who was with me, who chose to have a child with me and who married me. The ghost of my father always present in my unexpressed anger and expressed within my marriage. Hidden in plain view, for years I have believed that I was protecting myself when in TRUTH i was locked in a cell with the anger that birthed when my father died.
Now I am shown the release of this anger, this anger that has fueled my entire life experience and has sat alongside my grief. Anger is a natural part of grief but begins to disrupt when it is held on to. The death of my mother saw the death of my marriage, the death of my life experience in many ways for I felt rejected and I felt lost but so intense were the emotions that I did not for one moment look outside of myself. I reacted from how I felt, deaf to any other options other than to fight and to protect. Society encourages this, the old earth supports this and many, many people walk in this.
As a local pastor has stated a few times “hurt people, hurt people”. We defend ourselves for we are taught to do this by the old earth. If we strike out at those around us we have to understand that they will strike back for we have ALL been taught to live our lives like this. Many get lost in battles that are passionately angry, parents go to war over their children, siblings go to war over their parents, but ALL ARE HURTING and all are lost in the hurt believing that the other person is the cause of the hurt, the other person is the instrument through which the hurt is shown to us.
To my ex husband I reach out on this fathers day and wish him a happy fathers day. I reach out publicly and state that I reacted out of an intense emotional pain that blinded me. I open the door to healing in whatever form this expansion takes for we are now moving into a further expansion of this our human life experience. The veils are being lifted so that we can see the pain on those around us and not just see them as the humans that share this planet with us.
The entire human race is in pain and we are asked to have love and compassion for SELF and for ALL at this time. For some this pain will be so intense that healing will seem to be a word that makes no sense at all but LOVE knows no boundaries and LOVE is the answer, no matter the question. We are asked to open our hearts fully at this time and allow this LOVE to flow through us, to remove the blindfolds we were taught to place up our human lives and to understand that the human male is not the enemy any more than the human female is the enemy. The enemy is the seed of pain that was planted into the human life experience at the beginning of creation, which sought to divide and conquer but which is now being shown in TRUTH in order that a race once divided can be UNITED in the LOVE that IS.
At this time we are asked to allow this healing to flow through us, around us and within us and to let go of our perceptions of what the human life experience is all about. The pain that we have been taught is part of this experience is now dissolving but many will try to hold on to it for many have allowed themselves to be taught that the pain is who they are, this is not TRUTH and is not supported on any level. LOVE will attempt at all moments of all moments to flow and the more intense the triggering the more pain will dissolve. We are who we are UNDERNEATH the pain that we have been taught to clothe ourselves in as some sort of armor. This does not protect us, it shuts us tightly in a jail cell which is locked from the inside. To step out of said jail cell we must begin to forgive and forgiveness starts with ourselves for we were taught how to live this human life experience by those who were also wrapped in pain and knew no other way of living. Generations of pain have led to the outer waking reality that is now being shown to us, one that we are asked to heal fully by allowing LOVE to anchor deep within our heart space and flow around us, through us and within us.
LOVE is the answer, no matter the question.
2 Corinthians 5:7 For we walk by faith, not by sight